well said Julie. it’s a fantastic perspective i needed to hear.
everyone should go to therapy. i do.
you know how sometimes people who go to therapy are embarrassed about it? i think that people should be embarrassed if they DON’T go to therapy.
it’s ok to take care of yourself.
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Hi Laura. How are you? laura I’d like to ask you a question. Do girls like bad guys? Do nice guys end up last? Just curious. And take care.
Bye
bye? why the bye?
hmm do girls like “bad guys”? well each girl is different, but i would say that the average girl tends to go through a phase where she does like them. however most girls want to marry and settle down with a “nice guy.” we want the stability and reliability of the “nice guy” instead the rebellion and unpredictability of the “bad guy” for the rest of our lives. some girls date the bad one to sort of torture their fathers. or their parents have told them to stay away from something so then they want it and pursue it even more. however, some girls are “bad” themselves and want the “bad guy” to have and settle down with. unfortunately it really depends on the girl. me personally, i was attracted to the rebellion of a “bad guy” in high school, but i never wanted to date one. i wanted a great guy, with great character, reliability, someone to love me and support me.
why do you ask?
Hieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Laura. That’s a nice question. Recently we had a debate on the topic whether Girls were more attracted to bad guys. Some girls felt that people who don’t smoke and drink are boring. They felt that girls settled for a nice guy, probably because he had money or some advantage. Someone felt that girls or women finally want a nice guy with a strong character – just as you said. What you say makes a lot of sense. There was also a feeling that young girls – teens onwards- tend to get attracted to the bad guys but later wisdom makes them think otherwise. Now I thought of writing a post on this but I thought a little research and feedback will make my perspectives better. Because I’ll have to know what women feel and NOT what I think is right. It’s a very interesting topic laura. There’s more to it than surface ripples.
Moreover, I had this sneaking suspicion that girls liked bad guys – but that doesn’t mean that I am going to put on a wolf’s clothing. In fact tried a RESEARCH ACT, worthy of an Oscar. I acted like a mean arrogant guy who kind of looks at women like a doormat. Sadly, this attracted attention. ACT 2 was myself, friendly and polite and nice- because I basically love women and can’t be mean. Well, that does get you a lot of women friends. Even love. But the dark side that I discovered was jarring, leaving behind a suspicion that some bad wolf might get the edge over me. So do I have to have a bad wolf clothing ready?
I’d like to use your thoughts in my post. And give credit to you and other women bloggers – naturally.
Have a great day. Cheer up. Hey! I had this idea of getting a book published. The book will be authored by not just one person. We can have 10.
All the bloggers and our interactive-comments and ideas can come into the book. There’ll be different articles with a single theme.
Example: Book title: GIRLS LOVE BAD GUYS. OR DO THEY?
Authors:
Laura
Oxydizer
x, y, z…. 100 if you wish. And we can share the royalty. Just an idea, hoever stupid or good.
lol yea you can use me in a post
glad you liked the thoughts… as far as yourself, that’s a decision you’ll have to make. ARE you a bad guy? or do you just enjoy acting like one because it seems to attract attention? something to ponder about…
Thanks pal. No. I am not a bad guy. And don’t believe in putting on a wolf’s clothing to attract girls. I’ll have to show my true color one day and what’s the point in wearing a false mask. I am just myself. I am not a shining knight in armor not am I the vampire in a dark cloak. An average human being is what I am with all the pluses and minus.
My next post will be – how’s this – DO GUYS LIKE BAD GIRLS MORE?
Why blame the porr girls alone, even guys can get kinky. Right?
Hey, I suddenly noticed that I had commented a BYE. That’s probably because I thought it’s going to be weekend and you’ll be off the blog until early next week. No, No, No – I am not saying bye to Laura – no way pal- Ill hate to lose you as my blog friend. I was saying bye to the weekend.
HELLO!
Larura- where are you? How is that all women sites are boring? You are interesting. Most women are a bore- the blogs. Your’s has a merit.
laura where are you?
Laura Where are you? I guess you’re doing fine. Miss your posts and comments. Take care.
struggling with some things right now…. sorry for my absence.
Take care Laura. Was enjoying your posts. Keep posting but before that get OK. I pray that you should be fine.
I’m not going anywhere… I just do not blog with regularity by any means.
Hi laura, how are you?